Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense of Purpose
What Will
Retirement Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what I want when I want."
"Whew, no more office politics
to deal with!"
"At last, the government
will be paying me for a change."
"I'm finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These statements reflect some
of the positive things about retirement that almost everyone
looks forward to. Unless it's due to illness, the reason most
retirees leave their jobs is because they want to, not because
they're pushed out. So for most, that last day on the job is
a joyful one filled with an invigorating sense of personal freedom.
But many retirees are not prepared
for another feeling that often follows that last day of work:
a profound sense of loss.
You've Got Company
A study sponsored by Civic Ventures, Temple University, and
the Center for Intergenerational Learning surveyed retired people
of all economic levels, and found that the majority had one
thing in common: They felt lonely. It wasn't for lack of friends,
family and active social lives. Instead, it was a loneliness
for the kinds of relationships they had established during their
working years. Almost all workers are part of teams of some
kind, and those teams have daily problems to solve, solutions
to work out, new ideas to introduce.
An
architect who spent her life drawing plans had an office full
of people who understood her work and appreciated her creative
new ideas. A science teacher of many years had near-celebrity
status among his peers and his students, who always seemed to
be talking about the cool things they were learning in his class.
The manager of quality-control at an auto-assembly plant felt
pride in his team and got a special thrill each fall when the
new models came out and he saw them on the road.
At retirement, they may all have
one thing in common: loss of a sense of purpose. The architect's
purpose was to create satisfying designs, the teacher's to stimulate
young minds, the quality-control manager's to assure that his
company's products measured up to top standards. What will replace
the job satisfactions that were so much a part of their identities?
These days, with rumblings that
social security might not last and with health care costs escalating
alarmingly, many retirees find that instead of feeling the total
freedom they dreamed about, they are haunted by worries about
whether they have enough money saved to actually enjoy their
retired years. The fact that people are living so much longer
than they did a decade ago should seem like good news-but the
prospect of how to finance all those extra years is troublesome
to many people when they leave the workforce.
It's a fact that retirement can
be an unsettling time. But it doesn't have to be.
Many people have a different
view of retirement. One respondent in the study mentioned above
said: "I like to think of myself as retiring TO something
as opposed to retiring FROM something."
In other words, retirement
shouldn't be a stopping point, but a continuation of the journey
through life. Why toss all the experience you've gained
through years of working? You're one of the "wise ones"
now. There are people out there who value you.
A 2005 comprehensive study released
by AARP and Towers Perrin, a human resources consulting firm,
showed that many employers are beginning to recognize the value
of older workers. It's that old-fashioned work ethic-you know,
expecting to actually show up on time and give a fair day's
work for a fair day's wage. In its September, 2006, Bulletin,
AARP honored 50 US employers who are "friendly" to
older workers.
But
doesn't going back to work defeat the whole idea of being retired?
Isn't it supposed to be time to stop showing up for work when
someone else says you should? You wanted freedom, remember?
Do you have to give that up to regain that sense of purpose?
Absolutely not.
Thousands of people of all ages
are making money in home businesses that allow them to be their
own bosses and retain the exhilaration of the freedom
to run their own lives. At the same time, they're able to generate
extra income to bulk up the nest egg and provide substantially
more financial security for the 20, 30 or more years to come.
Freedom from financial worry is just as important as freedom
from job demands if you're going to enjoy the rest of your life.
And as a home-based entrepreneur, you can still enjoy all the
dreams you planned. As long as you have a computer and a phone,
you can run your "home" business from anywhere you
call home-including your vacation cottage, RV, or even your
favorite beach.
If you're retired, or soon will
be, now is the time to get started. You already have the skills
you need. With a little extra help from the experts, you can
fine-tune them and start right away to put a sense of purpose
back in your life.
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can operate that will fulfill your needs.